EVERY THURSDAY

LGBTQ+ New Yorkers
meet new people over dinner.

Sit down with 4 strangers,
perfectly matched by personality, for a dinner you won’t forget.

Book Your Seat

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HOW DOES IT WORK?

Serving dinner, serving connections.
We plan it, you just show up.

1

Take the quick vibe quiz

Answer a short set of personality and lifestyle questions. These are grounded in social psychology and group dynamics research.

2

Get matched with 3 compatible strangers

Our algorithm balances shared anchors (age, career stage, values) with complementary traits (talkers + listeners, extroverts + introverts) to create optimal group chemistry.

3

We handle the logistics

From seating arrangements to venue details, everything is organized. You just show up knowing your table has been curated for meaningful conversation.

4

Arrive and experience the magic

Enjoy a structured social experience designed to reduce friction, break the ice, and unlock connection quality — supported by decades of research on small-group bonding.

5

Reflect, rate, and reconnect

After dinner, you’ll rate the experience. Our system uses this feedback loop to continually refine the matches. If you click with someone, mutual connections unlock so the conversation continues.

WHAT THEY SAY ABOUT GAYBORHOOD

I’d only been in the city a couple months and didn’t really know anyone yet. I almost didn’t go but figured worst case I’d eat dinner and leave. Ended up staying way longer than I planned because it felt easy, not like networking or anything.

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- Evan (he/him), 32, Chelsea NYC

Work’s been nonstop so I haven’t had the energy to make new friends. Having it all set up for me was kind of a relief. I just walked in, sat down, and the rest happened on its own which… honestly I didn’t expect.

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- Luis (he/him), 41, Hell’s Kitchen NYC

Big queer spaces sometimes make me anxious, I get quiet and kind of disappear in the corner. Here it felt calmer, like everyone actually had space. I didn’t have to push myself to talk, it just came out normal.

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- Marcus (they/them), 29, Brooklyn NYC

I wasn’t sure about the idea of dinner with strangers, sounded weird in my head. But I laughed more than I have in a while and we ended up grabbing another drink after. It felt really human, which is rare these days.

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- Tasha (she/her), 34, Lower East Side NYC

HEARD IN THE GAYBORHOOD

“I appreciate the consistent reminders to be kind and patient with myself as I learn and practice daily habits that are helping me find a calmer daily space.”
— Member on forming more helpful habits
“Headspace helped me begin the process of stepping back from toxic thinking and being a part of something bigger than my own personal grievances.”
— Member on learning to think in more helpful ways
“The strategies in the courses allow me to work on a part of myself that I am struggling with. Headspace changed the relationship I have with myself.”
— Member on working through their feelings

The way you approach life tends to be more…

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MEET YOUR FUTURE TABLE

Every Thursday at 7PM in NYC
JAY, 33
Product designer, big on astrology debates, Virgo
DANIEL, 38
Architect, secretly into karaoke, Scorpio
MAYA, 41
Creative strategist, brunches with her exes, Leo

Frequently Asked Questions

What’s included when I book?

Your booking gives you a reserved seat, a curated group, and all the logistics handled. You just pay for your meal at the restaurant.

How are groups assigned?

Groups aren’t random. Our algorithm considers age, gender balance, and responses from your personality test, applying principles from behavioral science and social dynamics. The goal is to maximize chemistry and keep tables balanced — so you’re not leaving it up to chance.

How do I book a seat?

Take our short personality test, choose your Thursday dinner, and confirm your seat. That’s it.

Who can join?

Our tables are built for LGBTQ+ folks and allies. All orientations and gender identities are welcome — the only requirement is openness to connection.

What about dietary restrictions?

Menus are shared in advance. You can flag restrictions when booking, and we’ll ensure you’re placed at a venue that works for you.

What time do dinners start?

Every Thursday at 7 PM, across rotating NYC restaurants.

Is this a dating thing?

Not at all. It’s about connection first. Sometimes friendships form, sometimes sparks fly — we just create the space and let the table take it from there.

How can I contact you?

Reach us anytime at team@gayborhood.io

DINNER’S BETTER

WITH THE GAYS

HOW DOES IT WORK?

Serving dinner, serving connections.
We plan it all, you just show up.

WHAT THEY'RE SAYING ABOUT